BBW dating: do’s and don’ts
You don’t want to blow your chance to have fun with our gathering of big, beautiful women, so here are a few tips to keep in mind during your next hook-up.
Do
Be complimentary. bbws are in no way easier than other girls; in fact they’re generally much more self-assured. Like any other girl, they love to hear what about them, in particular, turns you on.
Be honest about your desires. If you’re into squashing or something a little more niche within the ‘bbw shared universe’ be open about it instead of bringing it up like a dirty little secret. Even if she’s not into it, if you don’t make a big deal, she likely won’t. And you won’t get what you want unless you talk about it.
Treat her like you would treat any other attractive woman. Most women love it when they’re found attractive by someone they’re dating. However, they don’t like being fetishized, as that connotation makes them ‘abnormal.’ You don’t have to treat her differently just because she appeals more to you than she might to some.
Dont
Use the term bbw. Unless she applies it to herself. You can appreciate her curves, and say you love the way she looks, but some women aren’t as comfortable with the term as others.
Talk about nothing but the chubbiness. It can come off as creepy. If fat-talking is a kink of yours, let her initiate.
Think they are ‘easier’ than other girls. This is just simply not true. They might be looking for some simply, sexy fun, but that doesn’t mean that bbws are going to take anything you say or do and fuck you at the end of it. They’ll have plenty of other options.