Local sex dating: do’s and don’ts
You might be looking for only one thing, like your partner, but you’re more likely to get it if you follow these do’s and don’ts.
Do
Show your personality. Sex might be what you’re both after, but showing a little eccentricity makes you more memorable and attractive.
Be generous with compliments. You don’t have to get too poetic or flowery, but ambiguity is a turn-off. Let the other know what you find attractive about them.
Dirty talk. When you’re both comfortable and talking about what you like, be detailed. Nothing works better to build the anticipation.
Don't
Get stuck ‘shopping’. A common pitfall is to spend all your time browsing partners without actually choosing someone. Act on instinct. If you see someone you like, send a message before continuing to look.
Start too strong. Even if they’re looking for sex, most people don’t like if you come right out the gate telling them what you want to do. Introduce yourself, compliment them, strike a rapport.
Pretend you’re not after sex. You don’t have to demand a fuck right out the gate, but you’re more likely to get what you’re after if you’re honest when asked and recognize when both sides of the chat want different things.